Gustaf Reinhold Westfeldt McIlhenny died peacefully at his home in Damariscotta, on April 21, 2024. Gus was born in 1951 in New Orleans, La., the youngest of the five children, to Paul W. McIlhenny and Margaret Polk McIlhenny, who predeceased him. He is survived by his sister, Sara McIlhenny Ringle; sister-in- law, Judith McIlhenny, of Louisiana; four nieces; and many cousins.
Gus lived an interesting, and unusual life, both in the United States and Europe. He was a lifelong volunteer for causes and people he cared deeply about. He had an abiding interest in music, and he loved cooking for people and watching them enjoy the foods he presented. He was often happiest when he was standing in front of a rotund turkey fryer, tending it until the skin was brown and crispy on the outside and the meat, still juicy on the inside.
Gus cooked for Ben and Jerry, of ice cream fame, he cooked for many years at the New Orleans Jazz Fest, and for many of the jazz/rock greats of his time: Mahalia Jackson, Miles Davis, Aretha Franklin, etc. To thank the nurses and staff at LincolnHealth’s Miles Campus in Damariscotta, Gus held an outdoor picnic at the hospital in their honor, serving his carefully cooked turkey. His special marinade and secret sauce made this dish unforgettable, and the occasion memorable.
Among these many other things, Gus was a gifted musician, a world class photographer, and a raconteur. He had an incredible memory for people, places, and events, which enabled him to tell stories full of anecdotes and details, in an amusing and colorful way.
The years Gus spent living in Damariscotta were among the happiest of his life. His family wishes to thank his amazing cadre of caregivers, friends, and relatives who helped Gus immensely through the years, and through the last few months: Minda Gold, Wendy Williams, Robert and Sim Gregory, Liz Ferrero, Kyle Bragg, Jonah Vesery, Ian Ronan and Zach Rownan. We are so grateful for your loving care and kindness.
Should you wish to make a gift in Gus’ honor, please consider donating to Lincoln Academy, 81 Academy Hill Road, Newcastle, ME 04553, or to the charity of your choice.
Arrangements are under the direction and care of the Strong-Hancock Funeral Home, 612 Main St., Damariscotta, ME 04543. Condolences, and messages for his family, may be expressed by visiting stronghancock.com.
